Hello hello!
That’s what my Gramps used to say every time he walked in the front door. No matter what kind of day he had, that big man filled the air with love the minute he stepped foot in the house. I long to hear it every time the front door opens – no matter who’s there.
Each week, I sit down to write you about what I’ve been hearing from Sirens all week long, so that you might know you’re not alone. There’s a theme every week as predictable as my Gramps. A perfect order to things as we all try to surf the waves as best we can.
This week the theme was money. No surprise, as the markets tanked and tariffs came and went. When the first shockwaves hit, I was at the base of Mt. Shasta at a retreat called “The Future of Love and Money”. Can you believe? It was the perfect place to be with the best humans. Here are some of the essential money codes I learned.
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What is your definition of Wealth?
Fill in the blank: Money is…
I’ve always believed Money is Freedom. Seems reasonable, right? I bet your answer does too. The trick is, if I don’t have enough money, I’m waiting to feel free. I will only be free, or experience freedom, when I’m “wealthy”. Look at your answer and ask yourself if you have it now – no matter how many zeros are in your bank account.
The truth is, you can’t call something in, or manifest it, if you believe it’s separate from you. In the Course on Abundance, Dr. Joe Dispenza teaches the only way to magnetize moolah (or anything else you desire) is to feel the feeling of it now without concern for the how or when it shows up. Dr. Joe says the How and When are none of your business.
The leader of our retreat is a wildly successful wealth manager and CEO who gave me a new definition of money to play with: Money is Love.
Takes my breath every time I say it. Nuts! It’s sure not what I learned in Business School. But I’ve sat with it for days now and it’s absolutely true. It checks out. You are the source of love itself. We ARE love. And when you remember that, you are not separate from it. And you can only manifest what’s not separate from you.
So … if you’re trying to add a zero to things, you must remember that you are WORTH-Y of those zeros. That there is a perfect order of abundance in the world and the game is not to play from the sidelines, imagining you don’t belong or aren’t deserving, not there yet or don’t know how or when it will all work. The game is to fall in love with yourself and money.
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Are you living from your wound or your worth?
I was at a Women + Wealth conference just last week and it was clear as day that most women are in their wound when it comes to money … often when it comes to love too. Here’s where it gets wild, think about all the people you know who have “wealth”. Are they all giant lovers? Probably some, definitely not all. Many of us forget we are love. But you can be sure that every single one of them believed they deserved all that money. They are worth it and they have gone after it from that worthiness – not from the wound.
We all have a core wound. It’s part of being human. It’s the beautiful thing that points you to your purpose in life. It also makes you extremely relatable and lovable. Hold it, use it to return you to your source. Then get in the game. You are not here to struggle with money. That is not why you came here.
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What are you here to learn?
We get to decide. Every time you find yourself in a spin cycle, slow down and come back to your knowing. I came here to learn Love. Which means, clearly I came here to have all the abundance that comes with it. I think you did too. While hard things are part of the journey, they are only doorways that lead us to have exactly what we came for.
My Gramps drove all over town with a license plate on the back of his car that said RMISMCO. Guess what it stood for… “Richest Man in San Mateo County”. He was the sole provider for 7 children on a commission only job. No predictable salary ever. Some days he only had a peanut butter sandwich. And never, not ever, did anyone see him stressed or angry. He made all the monies, so much, that everyone was provided for long after he was gone.
He was Love itself.
I know he must have been scared sometimes, I sure am. But fear can’t drive the bus. Get behind the wheel, turn up the tunes and let’s get us some zeros.
All the windows open and all my love,
Chérie
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